3.2.10

What to do?

What do you do when you know someone has been bad-mouthing you and actually digging you a hole, but you are not supposed to know that? You keep your mouth shut, right? And what do you do when that person wants an appointment and has the nerve to ask for your help? You find an excuse, you deny and you do a banishing spell for all the negative energy, right?
Oh i wish i have n't given my blog's url to some people!
By the way, the Goddess has been trying to warn me for that person in so many ways. And then She has been trying to warn me for today too! I was n't really listening....

6 comments:

Shadow said...

icccch, i so dislike 2-faced people.... good luck!

Mother's Moon's Message said...

unfortunately people such as this are everywhere... we usually don't like to admit it yet its true.. sounds like you have the right idea though in regards to what to do... your kind soul shows through with regards to your actions...

Autumnforest said...

It's strange, but I've found that the more ruthless and nasty people are, the more I want to treat them gently. At some point, they became bitter and petty and drawn in on themselves and I feel like at some point if someone had been more open and honest and gentle with them, they might not have become some selfish. I believe in karma and you can't let someone's pettiness make you less of an open-hearted good person, so you keep doing what you do and keep and open and trusting heart and they will have to live with their own guilt. In the end, it creates a karma for you that is positive because you didn't let others change who you are for any reason.

Wendy said...

Sounds like a lesson from the universe. There are so many ways you can look at this. Why would the person be negative to you and then reach out for your help? Well, they could do it as a way to be even nastier, or maybe they are envious, or bored, or small-minded. OR, they could know on some level that they can benefit from knowing you.

Finding an excuse not to accept their request for an appointment is a short term action but is not likely to resolve anything. Banishing has implications on affecting other peoples free will and doesn't address the root cause.

Perhaps a self protection spell would also be useful. Sending love and positive energy is something else that you might have already considered. But, is there something you feel comfortable doing in terms of helping them physically? Could you meet with them and just talk about what you've heard? It may just be a misunderstanding and even though your not supposed to know, the fact is that you do and you can either choose the path of honesty or the path of denial; neither one promises to be easy but surely one honours your soul better than the other.

OK, so it's all so easy for someone who is not involved to give advice and at the end of the day it's for you to work through. My blessing for you this day is that this situation will reach a positive outcome quickly, that you will be protected on all levels and that the universe will glow with pride for all you learn and experience in this world through opportunities for self-development such as these. Blessed be, dear one.

jaz@octoberfarm said...

i roast my vegetables either in the oven or on the grill. in the oven you just toss them with olive oil, salt and pepper, spread them out on a cookie sheet, sprinkle them with sea salt and pepper and roast them at about 450 degrees until they start to turn golden. you must have babaganoush but maybe it is called something else. it is greek! it's made from roasted eggplants, garlic, lemon and a bit of tahini, seasoned with salt and pepper.

Bridgett said...

I'm going through something similar right now.

Unfortunately, it's with family. ::sigh::

I feel your pain.

Hang in there.

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